Strategies: Doing What Works, Doing What Matters
a bad relationship, a dead-end career, or a harmful habit, Dr.
McGraw's 10 Life Laws will empower you to take responsibility
for your own actions and break free from self-destructive patterns.
Drawing upon more than fifteen years of experience, Dr. McGraw explores
each of the 10 Life Laws necessary to succeed:
Law #1: You either get it, or you don't.
Strategy: Become one of those who gets
Law #2: You create your own experience.
Strategy: Acknowledge and accept accountability
for your life.
Law #3: People do what works.
Strategy: Identify the payoffs that
drive your behavior and that of others.
Law #4: You cannot change what you do not acknowledge.
Strategy: Get real with yourself about
your life and everybody in it.
Law #5: Life rewards action.
Strategy: Make careful decisions and
then pull the trigger.
Law #6: There is no reality; only
Strategy: Identify the filters through
which you view the world.
Law #7: Life is managed; it is not cured.
Strategy: Learn to take charge of
Law #8: We teach people how to treat us.
Strategy: Own, rather than complain
about, how people treat you.
Law #9: There is power in forgiveness.
Strategy: Open your eyes to what anger
and resentment are doing to you.
Law #10: You have to name it before
you can claim it.
Strategy: Get clear about what you
want and take your turn.